One framework for supplier metrics, originally developed by the Hewlett Packard company and now used widely by leading companies, represents an excellent and objective way in which to measure and communicate expectations to key suppliers. It is known as the TQRDCE system, for Technology, Quality, Responsiveness, Delivery, Cost and Environment.

In this framework, each key supplier is "measured" on six dimensions, represented here by a "radar chart". For each dimension, the supplier is scored from 0 to 5, whereby a low score represents poor performance and a score of 5 means perfection. The number of axes or dimensions and the name of the axes may be changed to reflect what parameters are most important to the scoring company and its customers.
In this diagram, our supplier management team has decided that a score of less than 2 on any axis is unacceptable, and a score of 3.5 or greater is not just acceptable but preferred. After doing a scoring exercise, a typical set of supplier scores may appear as the dotted-line trajectory as shown. The team may then decide to work with the supplier on improving his on-time delivery performance, while complimenting him on his quality.
Of course, a lot of work goes into deciding what elements to score and how to score them. But once it is established, this framework works exceedingly well in qualifying and communicating with key suppliers. Now they know objectively where they stand with respect to expectations and where they need to improve to boost satisfaction and business.
There can be no better way to treat a key supplier (or anyone else, for that matter) than to let him know, with openness and objectivity, where he stands. The more important a supplier is to your success, the more honestly and openly you should treat him. You may even want to invest money or resources to help a key supplier improve along some dimension that is important to your (and his) success.
In other words, treat these suppliers like family - only better.